link            irc.relaychat.net
{
        username        *;
        hostname        64.85.164.166;
        bind-ip         *;
        port            7070;
        hub             *;
        password-connect "passwdhere";
        password-receive "passwdhere";
        class           servers;
                options {
                        /* Note: You should not use autoconnect when linking services */
                        autoconnect;
                };
};


################### Notes #####################################
64.85.164.166 is irc.relaychat.net's IP address

use a port between 7070 to 7099 and let me know which one 

The autoconnect will allow me to see you connecting to our ircd